Define gender messages. Explain situation if you are an Vietnamese women live by the “four virtues”: hard work, beauty, refined speech and excellent conduct. A traditional Vietnamese woman is governed by three basic Confucian tenets: 1) She should submit to her father; 2) She should obey her husband; and 3) If widowed, she should obey her eldest son. Children are not regarded as having rights. Daughters are expected to assist with household chores from an early age; to defer to men; to protect their virginity; and to regard marriage as automatic. Family members are expected to work and behave for the good of the group. How was it affect you in your life such as work life, such as dating? Give An example that happenned to you as Vietnamese women in the US and working with another races